The biasness in everything

Life is unfair. No one ever said that it is not. In everything to be done, in every action to be taken, in every decision to be made, in every words to be said, there would be an element of biasness. No one is of the exception. Not your family, not your friends, not your colleagues, not your boss, definitely not a stranger and not even your own self.

No matter how often you lied to yourself by saying that you are treating everyone the same, the actions showed otherwise. It's perfectly human nature after all. People would of course look after themselves first. And then to those of their liking. But at that very same moment, they would expect or demand to be treated better than the rest. They portrayed biasness to others and yet wanted to be treated fairly. Things get ugly when people fail to get what they desired.

I guess it's relatively human nature too that people don't think by what I would like to call a "two-way matching". If you want others to do good on you, surely you'd have to do good on others in the first place. How can you expect others to willingly help you out when you pushed them away in times of neeed? The surprising thing is that you'd get all upset and begin to curse that particular person for not offerring their help. People are this funny at times. What can you say to make them change their minds? Nothing. They were born with it and they would continue to live with it. Unless, you are able to make them fall real bad in order to wake them up.

Sometimes, I would like to think that life is worth giving up with. It's okay if poeple at work hurt you. They don't really matter. Once the job is done, you'd never see them again. It would still be okay if your friends hurt you. You can switch friends anytime you like. They don't stick with you forever after all. It would be painfully okay if your CLOSE friends hurt you. People make mistakes. You would forgive them for who they are. But what if family hurts you? In times of need. In times when you needed some one to be there for some support. In times when you needed to hear some consoling words. And then biasness creep up. You begin to compare. You begin to feel unfair. What do you do when tears no longer heal? When the shattered could no longer be shattered? You would just give up.

Life is memang unfair. In everything. Prove me wrong!